it was nothing more than just a speck of dust

In my pursue to grasp my friends to the true path..
i've forgotten to dive into their hearts..
i've neglected their feelings when in my eyes, the goal keep blinking furiously to get me going..
how i've overlook the 'hitch' that been growing inside them..

Last night i realised..each individual has different narration of life.. The problem i've faced, will not always be theirs to comprehend.. The problems there are facing, are mostly ones that i've never encounter or confront.. This proves the dynamics in humans behaviour as a population.. And which means my approach to them should be dynamical as well.

I used to think, i've been given the most hardest trial and tribulation among my friends.. Yet, to think bout it again..what was impart on me, was just like a small particle (pico m size) on the broad expansive sea.. Y'day i was really thankful to Allah..the burden i beared before was nothing to compare with a particular friend of mine now..and to compare with what as tested upon the sahabah of the prophet(saw) and the prophet itself, as if my problem is just like a speck of dust in their lives.. Yet i was distress for my friend is loaded with hindrance in all directions. I know that this is a test for her, to toughen her heart for the unpredictable rigorous test that is yet to come..
I can only ask from Allah so that her heart will not collapse, and will not divert from the straight path that she's just beginning to follow and understand..